Sex Positions

A LOT of Jamaicans and many other people think that the 'backshot' or 'doggystyle' is the best or 'baddest' position there is, and so many people feel that if you do not engage in it, you are a loser, or you are a little boy, or you 'can't handle the ride'. While the 'backshot/doggystyle' is a good sex position, dooing it properly is key. It is a position in which penetration is deeper, and is more likely to cause unwanted damage or hurt to the female, which of course can be a 'mood-killer' and you do not want that. Therefore if you do not know how to perform this position properly, you should try to experiment with other positions or take the time out to practise with your partner. There are many other fun positions also- fun for both the male and female as well, like the under-rated missionary (in Jamaica) possibly because the woman has rather less work compared to that of the male, and Jamaican men likes an active female (generally speaking). However, this sex position, if performed properly can provide a lot of stimulation to the clitoris of the female, which can result in an orgasm for the female. It also allows close contact between partners, and the man can kiss her lips, neck, breasts, pull her hair, whatever she may like. She can also wrap her legs around him bringing them closer together, which results in more stimulation for both. Other positions include the 'cowgirl' (woman on top), the 'reverse cowgirl' (woman on top facing his toes), 'the spoon'(both partners on the side, with the woman's back to the man), and many more. My advice is to experiment with sex positions, and see what suits you and your partner best. Sometimes just going with the flow of your partner may result in something explosive so be open-minded and explore. Note: some positions or sexual activities displayed in pornographic films, may not necessarily suit you and your partner, and in a worse case scenario may cause unwanted harm. However, some of the sexual positions and activities displayed are often quite enjoyable, and so it is up to the discretion of each individual to choose what is good for the benefit of themselves and their partner. here is a post from one of my favourite talk shows Cherry TV, on some positions that these particular women liked: And here is another post with some positions that these particular women did not like: http://youtu.be/SKaqp1tmjAo

Dont be OVERCONFIDENT

A Good tip for a man to be a great lover, is not just to assume that he is the greatest lover, which in fact is the downfall of many men worldwide. Many men go around bragging about the great lovers they are "How they put it on her" and a lot of times if you check with the woman, it is a different story. MEN, YOUR SEXUAL PROWESS IS JUDGED BY THE SATISFACTION OF THE WOMAN. you cannot judge it by yourself, that would be called "Tooting your horn". It is the same thing for women, her prowess his judged by the satisfaction of the man. My advice is to firstly engage in conversion with the lady. Try to find out from her the things she likes and what turns her on. Discuss them with her and try them, tell her what you like also, this can be a very good way to get closer to each other and can even be the start of a healthy sex life. Research the things she likes, they are online, trust me just try to be open-minded, go online look it up, there will be tips in doing it correctly, how to improve your skills on it, whatever it is. Surprise her the next time you have sex. I am sure she will be pleased. The best lovers are surely those who keep themselves abreast with current information about their partners, for how can you satisfy someone if you do not do the things they like? and how can you know what they like if you do not ask? Foreplay. a lot of men do not spend time, or even do not engage in foreplay. foreplay is normally viewed as kissing, and touching, and etc, but foreplay is somewhat limited and stereotyped. foreplay is anything that prepares the other partner for sexual encounters, and sets the atmosphere or breaks the atmosphere for great sex. Many women complain that their male partners pay little or no attention to foreplay, and so lesbians are deemed better lovers, usually because of the amount of 'foreplay like' attention that is given. Many men do not recognize that the more a woman is stimulated to partake in sex, the greater the sexual encounter will be, the more likely it is for her to lose her inhibitions, because she is physically, mentally and emotionally focused on the act of making love. therefore she is more likely to 'get wild' or 'talk dirty' or whatever you like, because she is sold over to your actions. So listen, explore, read, research, be open-minded, be creative, be expressive, respect her body, respect your body, lose inhibitions, have great sex.